Leadership musings 4

Leaders are Dreamers


To be clear. I mean by this that leaders are visionaries. They dream big dreams. They are not fantasists! What they see, the begin to think about how to make a reality. They know the truth that:

"Without Vision the people perish" Proverbs 29:18. The heart of the Christian leader should be that none shall perish. This alone should encourage the leader to seek God for vision. Of course having the dream is not enough. You have to be prepared to share it with others. When they understand it and they trust you then there is the chance that they might own it. At this point the dream begins to have the potential to become a reality.

However before we can pass it on there are a few things that leaders need to get hold of. They are well summarised  by the author Florence Littauer. She says:

Images Dare to Dream - Have the desire to do something bigger than yourself

Prepare the Dream - Do your homework. Be ready when the opportunity comes.

Wear the Dream - Do it!

Share the dream - Make others part of the dream and it will become greater than you had hoped.

This is not an excuse for idle day dreaming. It is God focussed, prayer based, word inspired, Holy Spirit empowered vision building.

I have a dream......




Lee Grady Visits City Temple

Jleegrady_new Lee Grady has been in Wales as part of the speaking team at Impact The Nations conference organised by my good mate Carl Brettle. On Sunday he ministered in City Temple and last night spoke at Band of Brothers (See earlier Blogs). Speaking on the subject "3 Secret Key to loving you wife more" by announcing his theme the previous day in church, he was guaranteed a good turn out as wives encouraged husbands to attend.


Lee is a personable, rational, highly intelligent man of God who routes his preaching in the word with an expectation that signs and wonders will follow. Nothing unusual in this or is there? Some of the issues in the charismatic and pentecostal church, Lee observes is that we preacher chases the signs and wonders and omits the need to sound biblical preaching and doctrine.

The three secrets were: 

1) Treat Your wife as an equal. 1 Corinthians 7:3-4 
This passage suggests sexual mutuality. This is the model for the rest of our lives
2) Learn to serve your Wife
Ephesians 5: 22-33
Particularly the majority of the passages that talk about husbands should treat their wives. Christ heart was to wash the disciples feet. Thjs is the model for men. There was also the sobering thought illustrated in 1: Peter 3:7.

Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

This Passage indicates that God does not listen to a man who is abusing his wife

3) Release your wife into her ministry   Matthew 1:20

Mary's gift was nurtured and protected by Joseph. So it should be with us

Interesting stuff that lead to a lively debate!



Leadership musings 3

Time

 

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Thousands have books have been written about time management. The truth is we cannot manage time. It is impossible. Everyone on the planet has 24 hours per day. There are 60 minutes within each hour and 60 seconds within each minute. These facts are universal. The thing that we can manage is the how we manage OURSELVES within this time.

 

Being time efficient is one of the key challenges for the effective leader. There is so many distractions from the tasks in hand. It can be television, the internet, idle conversation, Facebook, Myspace….you fill in the blanks. The reality is that time is a precious resource and should be treated as such. I write this not as an expert but someone who is aware of the battle for this commodity. I need to deliver on the things I have promised, to God, to my family, to my ministry, my co-workers and my friends. All of them deserve quality time.

 

Recently, I have been very intentional in the time I am giving to the people who are working on projects in Ignite. This appears to be very affective not only in keeping me informed but also in them feeling affirmed and encouraged. Additionally we are developing a deeper connectivity.

 

Musing on this is encouraging me to use my time even more effectively

 

Until the next time……


Leadership Musings 2

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So many of our structures are top down putting us at the top of the pile. In Ignite our structure is presented horizontally. This is intended to make a statement that all are valued in the team. We are all part of one body. In the plans and purposes of God, the guy who designs the website is as important as the chief executive. The challenges for the leader with a desire not only to serve God but also his colleagues (Matt 26: 36-40) are how to be a servant leader? How does one display this servant-hood?  In addition how to one exercise the God given called to lead and not get bogged down in doing jobs that are not his/her calling? These decisions are not easy. If we accept the leaders are similar to the position of Elder then there is presicident for being set aside for specific tasks whilst some of co-workers might be called to other functional roles.

 

My view is dynamic leadership means that these questions need to be frequently asked and the  answers wrestled with.


Musings on Leadership

I have been considering some of the attributes of a good leader. The postings under the title "musings on Leadership" that I post in the coming weeks will explore my thinking further.

 

Resist Worldly Trappings

 

Not everyone is called to lead but ALL are called to serve. That includes leaders. Sometimes we can forget this and expect everyone to serve us. Every worker is worthy of his hire but we need to be able to justify our salary and benefits package.Images-1  It might even mean standing against those that want to serve us that inadvertently encourage into positions of exalted grandness and inappropriate use of power. What I mean by this is the people who would exalt us to a level where we are the objects of their worship! They might ensure that nobody can speak with us. Their desire to put us on a pedestal is so great that they control access to our “inner-courts.” This may be the way of the world but it is not the way of our ultimate role model, Jesus came to serve not to be served. He chose to ride on a donkey not a grand horse, he had no permanent address, no great wealth and as people sought to give him status pointed to people to His father.

We can learn something of this as when we are tempted to chase the trappings that the world offers leaders. We serve a king who leads an upside down kingdom.

Availability

 

Jesus had time for people and so should we. We need to be available to people. Whilst it is essential that we take and are given time to pray, study, think and plan, it is also essential that we are not alone in an ivory tower. We need to be connected to those we seek to serve and certainly to the team that we lead. In my organisation, I run a “door open” policy. That is for most of the day my door is open. People know that they can come in and see me, ask questions and share things when my door is open. 
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Sometimes we need to realise the interruption is our work!

 




Band of Brothers 2

Last night I went along to a men's meeting organised by a bunch of guys from my church. Although numbers were down there was probably still 30 blokes all committed to being real with each other. Believing the best, prepared for the worst with a total commitment to Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit to change lives. The bible is clear about the value of such a gathering. Psalm 133:1 says "How good it is when bothers live together in unity"


Yesterday, Gerit Bantjes, who as well as being a member of the group is also a an expert in nutrition and exercise talked with is about making positive changes to our lives styles. To be fair there were few men in there, myself included, who not need to lose a few pounds!
ImagesI think the primary message though was recognising where the battlgrounds are in your life. Is it food, alcohol, lust, porn, tv? It could be any weakness that the enemy uses to try to take you out. In John 10:10 it says "The enemy comes only to steel, kill and destroy" Well I don't know about you but I have resolved not to give the enemy anymore foothold in my life. The devious git that he is means that he is unlikely bother to attack me in my areas of strength, rather he will go after my weaknesses. Mark Lyndon Jones, the leaders of Band of Brothers" uses a phrase which is "guys its great to do life together" He is right. As we see high profile Christians fall we need to get hold of the fact that we were born to live in community, in family, in church. Where life can be lived out with accountability.
We have seen guys fall before and, alas, I think we will again but what can I do to ensure it's not me or any of my mates? Well set-ups like Band of Brothers surely help.

Suicides in Bridgend and South Wales- Watch this Film!

In response to the spate of suicides in South Wales, we have produced this film. Please watch this and then spread it to as many people as possible!


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A Good Day!

Yesterday was a good day. In the morning we attended City Temple, Cardiff. The presence of God was awesome as we were lead in worship by Richard LewisImages

Pastor Jay Fallon preached a great word on "the disciplined life" A word in season to many, not least me! A nice lunch and a relaxed afternoon reading and drinking coffee then in the evening we went to church again for the ministry of Dr Peter Gammons.Images
Peter is a healing evangelist. We saw many give their lives to Jesus and people healed including deaf ears unblocked and a man walk from a wheelchair. All spectacular stuff but we serve a powerful God!

Later we went and had pizza with Martyn and Danielle Evans. Always a pleasure

A good day!